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How I Learned to Stop Being a Jerk

How I Learned to Stop Being a Jerk

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Jul 12, 2024
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"This conversation is making me feel defensive," David said. (Not his real name.)

David’s comment paused me for a moment.

I blurted out, "Good."

Then I realized what I was doing. I was justifying bad behavior—something I have done all my life—a behavior no one would want to be on the other end of, not even me. I would hate it.

Here's what it looks like.

Davi…

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